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Advice From an Idiot
Navigating Love, Marriage, and Beyond
Advice from an Idiot is a candid exploration of long-term relationships, especially as they evolve through midlife. Written with humor and humility, Zac Hansel shares personal insights and real-life reflections on the journey of love and commitment over time.
Through this collection, readers are invited to look at love as an evolving art—one that requires intentional practices, small, consistent rituals, and open communication to sustain a meaningful connection.
Rather than offering perfect solutions, this collection emphasizes recognizing the natural drift of attention that can happen in long-term relationships and finding ways to rekindle intimacy and appreciation through simple yet powerful acts.
Zac’s unfiltered stories and practical perspectives encourage readers to reflect, find clarity, and engage deeply, whether they’re aiming to strengthen their relationship or determine its future. Honest, relatable, and refreshingly accessible, Advice from an Idiot is a resource for anyone looking to navigate the real, often messy, but rewarding experience of lifelong love—no genius required.